7 Things That Just Don’t Make Sense to Introverts
These “extroverted” behaviors can seem strange, uncomfortable, and even annoying to introverts.
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Sometimes, it feels like the world doesn’t “get” you — especially if you’re an introvert. But we’re fellow “quiet ones,” so we get it. Here are some of our favorite stories about what it’s like being an introvert.
These “extroverted” behaviors can seem strange, uncomfortable, and even annoying to introverts.
To introverts, surprise visits feel like trespassing, both physically and mentally, like someone is invading our private oasis.
One clear sign you’re an introvert: You feel lonelier in a crowd than when you’re alone. Solitude feels good to you.
When your friend cancels on you at the last minute, and you kind of wanted to stay home anyway.
Sometimes being quiet is a fixed trait, while other times, it fluctuates with the perceived emotional safety and energy of the room.
An introvert hangover can leave you feeling exhausted, making you want nothing more than to escape to a quiet place alone.
I can’t go back and talk to my younger introverted self — but I can take these phrases and assert myself as an introverted adult.
Introverts are often expected to conform to the extrovert “norm,” like socializing, vs. attending to their own needs, like having alone time.
People often tell me, “You’re not ‘introverted enough’ to be an introvert.” But here’s why they’re wrong.
Introverts don’t lack energy, they just spend it in different ways.