About Us

Jenn Granneman, the founder of IntrovertDear.com
Jenn Granneman, founder of Introvert, Dear

Contact Us

Got a general question? Email [email protected].

Email Jenn, the site’s founder, at [email protected].

Who We Are

We’re the largest community and blog for introverts in the world.

Our Mission

To let introverts everywhere know it’s okay to be who they are. You’re not broken because you’re quiet. There’s nothing wrong with you because you like spending time alone.

Meet Jenn and Andre

Hi introverts! *waves shyly*

Jenn Granneman and Andre Sólo are the introverts behind Introvert, Dear and its sister site, Highly Sensitive Refuge. They are authors, researchers, and journalists who have dedicated their careers to changing the way the world sees introversion — and the way introverts see themselves. 

Jenn Granneman is the founder of Introvert, Dear and the author of The Secret Lives of Introverts. She started Introvert, Dear in 2013 as a personal blog. She was living with an extroverted roommate, dating an extroverted guy, and working an extroverted job (teaching 4th grade). She wanted to write about what it was like being an introvert living in an extrovert’s world. In true introvert form, she wrote her blog anonymously for almost two years. She had no desire to be in the spotlight — and she had no idea her “little” blog would one day the world’s largest introvert community!

A portrait of Jenn Granneman and Andre Sólo sitting close beside each other and smiling
Jenn Granneman and Andre Sólo, the introverts behind Introvert, Dear

Andre Sólo is an author, researcher, and introvert who spent the early part of his life thinking something was wrong with him because he preferred spending time alone. In his 20s, he tried practicing his social skills hoping to become less awkward — but quickly realized he will always need a week of downtime for every one night out with extroverts. Now a self-professed “social introvert,” he views his introspective nature not as a source of shame but as the root of his ability as a writer. He is grateful for it every day.

Together, Jenn and Andre — with the help of “quiet ones” around the world — are on a mission: to show introverts everywhere it’s okay to be who they are.


Since beginning our mission, we’ve been featured in a number of places. Jenn blogs for Psychology Today; her work has appeared on HuffPost, Susan Cain’s Quiet RevolutionUpworthyThe MightyThe MuseMotherly, and a number of other outlets. She has also appeared on the BBC and in BuzzfeedGlamour magazine, and The Oprah Magazine. Although we’re not currently recording new episodes, Jenn co-hosted the Introvert, Dear Podcast.

Both Jenn and Andre are available for interviews, media commentary, and other collaboration. (In some cases, speakers fees will apply.) Email them at [email protected] or [email protected].

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Jenn Granneman wearing a shirt from the Introvert, Dear Store

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We sell artist-designed sarcastic and relatable tees, sweatshirts, and more! The best part? When you shop our store, you support our mission; you help us keep doing what we’re doing, and reach more introverts. Shop here.

Why Is It Called Introvert, Dear?

When Jenn chose the name Introvert, Dear, she imagined a wise older woman inviting a troubled young introvert to lie down on a fancy chaise lounge in the kind of therapy session you might see in a movie. The older woman began her worldly advice by saying, “Now, introvert, dear…” Kinda weird, we know, but as Jenn says… welcome to my brain!

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