Dear Workplaces, Churches, and Schools, PLEASE Stop Doing Icebreakers. Signed, Introverts.
byIcebreakers are anxiety-provoking for many introverts because they force them to be the center of attention, think quickly, and interact with strangers.
Dear Workplaces, Churches, and Schools, PLEASE Stop Doing Icebreakers. Signed, Introverts.
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10 Secrets of the INFJ, the Rarest Personality Type in the World
byThe INFJ is thought to be the rarest of all the Myers-Briggs personality types. And indeed, INFJs are a trove of secrets that even they won’t readily reveal.
All The Possible Reasons I’m Not Talking Right Now
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Introverts Aren’t Antisocial, They’re Selectively Social
byHere are seven ways introverts socialize differently than extroverts — and why introverts aren’t antisocial but selectively social.
25 Strange and Contradictory Things About Being an Introvert
byMany introverts feel like they’re made of two opposing factions that constantly war against each other.
Why Is the INFP Personality Drawn to Sadness?
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Why INFJs Are Prone to Emotional Exhaustion (and How to Do More Self-Care)
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4 Tips for Introverts Trying to Make New Friends at Work
byYou’re not anti-social or shy, but you are an introvert and it takes you a little longer to become friends with people. But you want new friends at work!
13 Problems Only Highly Sensitive Introverts Will Understand
byWhat may be a minor irritation for some can easily send you into a panic or reduce you to tears.
It’s Not Rude or Selfish to Put Your Introvert Needs First
byWe cannot give when we are empty. That’s why, as introverts, we must look after ourselves.
Why the INFJ Personality Is a Favorite Target of Narcissists
byHere are three reasons why the INFJ personality is vulnerable to narcissts, and how you can break free of toxicity.
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The Dark Side of the INFJ Personality Type
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7 Things ISFPs Absolutely Hate
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Why Do Introverts Love Being Alone? Here’s the Science
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What It’s Like When an INFJ Falls in Love
byHere are seven things that happen when an INFJ finally meets the right person.
Why Introverts Make Some of the Best Leaders
byHere are four reasons why introverts are just as good at leading as extroverts — and sometimes better.
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byThe ISTP personality is driven by a strong desire to solve problems in concrete ways. However, just like any other type, ISTPs have their limits.