Movies and other people told me how I should be. Successful people were supposed to be loud, brash, confident, and outgoing.
People-pleasing is fascinating because it often has the opposite effect than what is intended.
I’m writing to you today about something I have dealt with my entire life.
Train travel feels more humane, relaxing, and less pressured.
Myth #1: Introverts don’t know how to have fun.
1. Play to your strengths.
INFPs can be an unstoppable force that can move mountains—in the real world and not just in their dreams.
Q: Why are introverts quiet?
1. Accept thoughts, emotions, and sensations as they are.
One of the reasons I lack confidence in many situations is I feel like an imposter.
I don’t know about you, but I tend to get overwhelmed this time of year.
I don’t feel the need to jump around with glee and squeal like others.
The INFJ personality type often feels awkward because we see things few others see.
Talking to women doesn’t have to be reserved for those rare people who are born confident or are extroverted.
For years, we spent too much time trying to convince one another that our way of doing life was the correct way.
Does your relationship meet your introvert needs?
After learning about my personality type, I noticed a disturbing pattern.
1. Time to decompress
What INFJs struggle with.
1. Just because we’re not talking doesn’t mean we’re upset or depressed.
1. Your energy level is closely tied to your environment.
Research suggests that simply being around another person sucks up a certain amount of the brain’s attention, making some tasks harder.
1. We prefer hanging out with just one or two other people rather than with a big group.
1. Change is unsettling.
Aaron Caycedo-Kimura created INFJoe Cartoons to help other INFJs not feel so alone.
It has to do with the way our brains are wired.