Taking criticism personally isn’t something that you have to suffer through and dwell on.
Therapy can be a great resource for any personality type, but it can be especially helpful for INFJs.
Introverted men show maturity and wisdom beyond their years. It’s not unusual for a young introverted man to be more sensible about important life lessons.
A quick and common fix, such as, “Stop worrying about what others think,” or “Just let it go,” isn’t usually enough to heal the INFJ’s hurting soul.