I Was an Introvert Who Wanted to Be an Extrovert
Extroverts could walk into a room and everyone would eagerly await their humor. I, an introvert, just sat there thinking, like always.
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Extroverts could walk into a room and everyone would eagerly await their humor. I, an introvert, just sat there thinking, like always.
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My isolation was ironic since people couldn’t stop offering to talk about it with me. As an introvert, this wasn’t the right way for me to grieve.
Although the world tells me I should feel empowered by my body, the truth is, as an introvert, I’ve never really been all that comfortable in my own skin.
As an extrovert, I’ve known quite a few introverts in my time. I actually used to think I was an introvert myself (turns out I just had bad social anxiety).
I went from being an introvert who placed too much value on what others thought to an introvert who felt more confident and comfortable in her own skin.