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Torin Speer

An ENFP who adores introverts. That makes sense considering we're the most extroverted introverts, especially for those of us who value our Fi more than our Ne.

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    Self-Development

    An Open Letter to Highly Sensitive Introverts, From a Highly Sensitive Extrovert

    By Torin Speer

    As an extrovert, I’ve known quite a few introverts in my time. I actually used to think I was an introvert myself (turns out I just had bad social anxiety).


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